Finding strength in unity: The Multicultural Communities Council of Illawarra Carer Program
An article written by Anica Petkovski, Project Officer at MCCI
In the Illawarra, a diverse group of carers gathers each month, united by their shared experiences in caring for loved ones. These individuals, coming from a variety of cultural backgrounds, face unique challenges as they navigate the demands of caregiving while maintaining their cultural identities. At the Multicultural Communities Council of Illawarra (MCCI), we recognise the importance of providing a supportive space where carers can connect, share their stories, and find comfort in knowing they are not alone.
One such carer, Betty from Hong Kong, recently joined the group and described it as a lifeline: ‘It gives me some outlet. I really want to express my grievances. Looking after my husband is not easy, and I know some people can also experience different hurdles.’
Betty’s story is a common one within the group. Caring for someone you love can be deeply rewarding, but it often comes with a sense of isolation. This is where the Weavers program plays a crucial role. Developed by The Australian Centre for Social Innovation (TACSI), the Weavers program is a strengths-based, peer-to-peer model designed to help carers manage their challenges, reduce stress, and improve their overall wellbeing. Beyond this, it fosters a strong sense of community among carers, who come to rely on one another for support.
Recently, the group enjoyed a three-day retreat in Sutton Forest, a much-needed break for everyone involved. We are proud to say that this retreat offered a chance to breathe fresh air, relax by warm fires, and unwind in a supportive environment. Activities included bushwalks, shared meals, movie nights, and a special visit to the international chapels at Penrose Park. The group also celebrated Christmas in July, a joyful tradition that brought laughter, and strengthened the bonds between participants.
Gorda, a long-time member of the group, expressed her appreciation for the retreat: ‘It’s the best.’
The retreat was more than just a time to relax—it served as a reminder of the strength found in unity. As Betty reflected: ‘Unity is important. We put down all our differences and come together and enjoy these three days, so then we know that someone will back and support you.’
The friendships formed within this group have become invaluable. These carers have developed a support network where they can lean on each other during difficult times and celebrate the good ones together. The group has created a space where everyone feels respected, heard, and understood. Here’s what some of our members have shared:
- I feel respected and listened to by others in the group.
- I never realised there were so many people in the same situation as me.
- I have made friends coming to this group as many of our friends don’t visit us anymore.
- I look forward to coming to the group. I wish we could meet more than once per month.
- In this group, I can be myself, I can laugh without being judged.
- It gives me time to myself to be with others.
- The information I receive from the group helps me make decisions about the future.
These reflections highlight the deep impact the group has on its members. It’s more than just a meeting—it’s a lifeline, a community, and a place where everyone feels they belong.
At MCCI, I am proud to stand beside these incredible carers, providing the support, advice, and companionship they need to continue their vital work. We are also grateful for the support of COORDINARE and recently to Carer Gateway, whose funding makes the Weavers program possible, ensuring that carers in our community receive the resources and help they deserve.
To learn more about the Weavers program and its impact, I invite you to watch this heartfelt video: Caring for Carers - The Weavers Program. Together, we’re building a community where every carer feels valued, supported, and never alone.
Authors
Anica Petkovski
Project Officer
Multicultural Communities Council of Illawarra